Archive for February, 2018

The president of the store where I have worked for nearly thirteen years announced to us in an emotional meeting yesterday that our store will be closing in three to four weeks. I know this was an extremely hard decision, and I appreciate that they have gone to great lengths to keep us open as long as they have. I am currently a full-time employee, and I have told them I will stay the remaining weeks that we are open. It has been a great store to work for, and they are doing their best to find positions for as many of us as possible at their other stores. As we all consider what our next steps will be (not just the next steps for us, but for anyone who is going through job loss, whether you are with this company or another), here are some questions I’m thinking about, and maybe they will help you, too:

  1. What is my passion? What do I not only enjoy doing but also feel that I am skilled in?
  2. What are my career goals not only for right now, but also for the next five or ten years?
  3. What do I need to do to make those career goals happen? How can I take at least one step each week toward making those career goals happen?
  4. If what I want to do is not going to make enough money to pay my bills for a while, what can I do in the meantime to pay those bills? What steps can I take so that my passion gradually does start paying more and more of my bills (and paying for fun things, too, like vacations)?

“Hitting bottom and hitting it hard was the worst thing that ever happened to me and the best thing that ever happened to me.” –Dave Ramsey

 

 

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If you follow me on social media or subscribe to my e-newsletter, you may already know this information, but I would like to update my blog followers on what life has been like the past few months. At the end of June 2017, my second book, The Anorexic Experiment, released and I had big plans to spend the next several months on book promotion. I wanted to participate in as many events as possible and spend a lot of time doing online marketing of my new book. The first week of August, my husband Mike and I were excited to find out that we were expecting our first child. Along with the pregnancy came a lot of exhaustion, and many days I didn’t have the energy to do much beyond working at my full-time day job. I only participated in a handful of events and did not end up dedicating nearly as much time to marketing as I had originally thought I would.

At our first prenatal appointment on October 2, we found out that I had experienced a missed miscarriage. A missed miscarriage means that the baby has died, but the mother does not have any symptoms of a miscarriage. The baby did not have a heartbeat, and an ultrasound revealed that the baby was only measuring 10.5 weeks when it should have been measuring 13.5 weeks. We were devastated, and I ended up having surgery on October 13 since my body was not naturally miscarrying on its own. I wanted to take the rest of 2017 to recover both physically and emotionally, and so I decided not to do much of anything with my writing for the remainder of the year. Other than a few social media posts, I did not do anything to promote my books or do any writing on a future project for those last several weeks of 2017.

By the time the first day of 2018 arrived a few weeks ago, I was ready and eager to return to writing. I have been working on the sequel to my first book, Illegally Innocent, and am currently about 25% of the way through writing the first draft. I have slowly eased back into making social media posts and returned to sending out my e-newsletter in January. I am hoping to have some events scheduled soon and will share with you when I do.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you who have experienced miscarriage.